SELECT 
  category_id, 
  parent_id 
FROM 
  cscart_categories 
WHERE 
  parent_id IN(
    3351, 3352, 3353, 3356, 3357, 3354, 3355, 
    3358, 3359, 3360, 3361, 3362, 3363
  ) 
  AND category_id != 414

Query time 0.00038

JSON explain

{
  "query_block": {
    "select_id": 1,
    "cost_info": {
      "query_cost": "9.11"
    },
    "table": {
      "table_name": "cscart_categories",
      "access_type": "range",
      "possible_keys": [
        "PRIMARY",
        "parent",
        "p_category_id"
      ],
      "key": "parent",
      "used_key_parts": [
        "parent_id"
      ],
      "key_length": "3",
      "rows_examined_per_scan": 13,
      "rows_produced_per_join": 13,
      "filtered": "100.00",
      "index_condition": "(`s2cart`.`cscart_categories`.`parent_id` in (3351,3352,3353,3356,3357,3354,3355,3358,3359,3360,3361,3362,3363))",
      "cost_info": {
        "read_cost": "7.81",
        "eval_cost": "1.30",
        "prefix_cost": "9.11",
        "data_read_per_join": "46K"
      },
      "used_columns": [
        "category_id",
        "parent_id"
      ],
      "attached_condition": "(`s2cart`.`cscart_categories`.`category_id` <> 414)"
    }
  }
}